How to Help an Adolescent With Body Image Issues

Parenting
March 26, 2025

If your adolescent is struggling with body image issues, you may feel lost and helpless. 

You may not know how to help them, or even where to start. 

Fortunately, there are a few things you can do to support them and help them find their way through this difficult time. 

Here are four tips for helping an adolescent with body image issues.

Understand the Problem

It is important to try to understand what is causing the adolescent's body image issues.

  • Is it a specific event or situation, such as being teased by classmates?
  • Or is it something that has been going on for a long time?

Once you have a better understanding of the problem, you can start to look for solutions. 

a young person looking at a broken mirror

Be Supportive and Listen

It can be difficult to know how to help an adolescent who is struggling with body image issues. 

It is important to be supportive and listen to what they have to say.

Try to avoid making assumptions or giving advice. Instead, focus on helping them to feel heard and understood.

It might also be helpful to provide information and resources about body image and eating disorders.

Ultimately, the best way to help is to encourage them to seek professional help if they are struggling to cope.

With the right support, they can learn to love and accept their bodies just as they are.

Help Them Find Their Solution

If you suspect that your teen is struggling with body image issues, there are steps you can take to help.

First, try to encourage them to speak openly about their feelings.

This can be difficult, but it will give you a better understanding of what they are going through.

You can also help them to develop a more positive self-image by teaching them to appreciate their unique qualities. 

Some unique qualities to point out are their talents, skills, and physical traits.

It is also important to help them develop a healthy relationship with food and exercise. 

This means teaching them to appreciate their bodies for what they can do, rather than how they look.

Finally, try to provide support and understanding without judgment. 

Remember, your goal is to help your teen feel better about themselves, not to fix their perceived flaws.

If you can do that, you will be well on your way to helping them overcome their body image issues.

Offer a Variety of Solutions to Choose From

Teens with body image issues often feel like they are stuck in a rut. 

They may feel like they have tried everything and nothing has worked.

One way to help is to offer a variety of solutions to choose from. 

This could include things like therapy, support groups, or self-help books.

It is important to let them know that there is no one-size-fits-all solution. 

What works for one person may not work for another.

Encourage them to experiment and find what works best for them.

With time and patience, they will eventually find a way to cope that works for them.

a young person hugging themselves in the dark

Don't Criticize or Judge Them For What They are Going Through

It can be tempting to criticize or judge an adolescent for their body image issues. 

However, it is important to remember that these are not always under their control.

Body image issues can be caused by a variety of factors, including genetics, biology, and the media.

Avoid saying things like, "You're just being ridiculous," or, "You should be grateful for what you have."

Instead, try to be understanding and supportive. 

This will help your teen to feel more comfortable talking to you about their issues.

So instead of criticizing them, try to offer understanding and support. 

This will be much more helpful in the long run.

Encourage Them With Positive Affirmations

Positive affirmations can be a great way to help an adolescent with body image issues. 

These are statements that you say to yourself or others in order to counter negative thoughts.

For example, you might say, "I am beautiful just the way I am," or "I am worthy of love and respect."

You can also encourage your teen to write their own affirmations. 

This can help them to feel more in control of their thoughts and feelings.

Seek Professional Help if the Problem is Severe or Persists Despite Your Efforts

If your teen is struggling to cope with their body image issues, it is important to seek professional help.

This could include things like therapy, medication, or hospitalization.

The sooner you get help, the better. 

With treatment, your teen can learn to love and accept their bodies just as they are.

FAQs

Q: What are some signs that an adolescent has body image issues?

A: Some common signs that an adolescent has body image issues include preoccupation with weight, dieting, and overexercising.

They may also have low self-esteem, depression, anxiety, and social isolation.

Q: How can I help my adolescent with body image issues?

A: You can help your adolescent with body image issues by being supportive and understanding. 

Try to offer a variety of solutions to choose from, and encourage them with positive affirmations. 

If the problem is severe, seek professional help.

Q: What are some common causes of body image issues in adolescents?

A: Some common causes of body image issues in adolescents include genetics, biology, and the media.

Body image issues can also be caused by mental health conditions such as eating disorders or depression.

Conclusion

If you suspect that your teen is struggling with body image issues, there are steps you can take to help. 

Try to encourage them to speak openly about their feelings, teach them to appreciate their unique qualities, help them develop a healthy relationship with food and exercise, and provide support and understanding without judgment. 

You can also offer a variety of solutions to choose from and encourage them with positive affirmations.

If the problem is severe or persists despite your efforts, seek professional help. 

With treatment, your teen can learn to love and accept their bodies just as they are.

Author
Jennifer Luttman, LPC, ACS

I am a Licensed Professional Counselor, and owner of Overcomers Counseling. I'm dedicated to helping individuals find strength and healing through life’s challenges. With a deep understanding of mental health and years of professional experience, I specialize in fostering hope and resilience while equipping her clients with tools to thrive. Passionate about empowering others, she creates a safe, supportive space where everyone feels seen, valued, and capable of overcoming obstacles on their path to well-being.

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