5 Tips to Improve Communication With Teens

Parenting
June 1, 2025

The teenage years constitute a period of growth and independence where teens begin to pull away from parents and make decisions on issues with real consequences, making concerned parents desire tips to improve communication with teens.

As a great parent, you can allow your teens some independence while keeping a watchful eye on their behavioral or mood changes, ensuring that you ask them about the changes and stay supportive during the ensuing conversation.

Another tip to practice is to control your emotions during moments of rebellion or rudeness from your teenagers, remembering that you are the emotionally mature adult and that flaring up may cause your teen to hide their emotions from you.

Similarly, you can improve communication with teens by showing them trust and taking them seriously by asking them for favors to show you rely on them or informing them of your faith in their abilities to perform a task.

Listening to them can also help because teens are more likely to share information when they don’t feel the need to provide it; thus, when you sit back, wait for them to speak, and actively listen, you can communicate better with them.

You can use any of these tips to improve communication with teens:

Author
Jennifer Luttman, LPC, ACS

I am a Licensed Professional Counselor, and owner of Overcomers Counseling. I'm dedicated to helping individuals find strength and healing through life’s challenges. With a deep understanding of mental health and years of professional experience, I specialize in fostering hope and resilience while equipping her clients with tools to thrive. Passionate about empowering others, she creates a safe, supportive space where everyone feels seen, valued, and capable of overcoming obstacles on their path to well-being.

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