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Narcissistic Personality Counseling in Colorado

Whether you're navigating a relationship with someone who shows narcissistic patterns, or exploring these patterns in yourself, you shouldn't have to make sense of it alone. Overcomers Counseling offers counseling for narcissistic personality concerns across Colorado Springs, Aurora, Fort Collins, and Pueblo, plus statewide teletherapy.

You Don't Have to Face This Alone

Narcissistic patterns can be confusing and exhausting to navigate, whether you're on the receiving end of them or working to understand your own. Our therapists provide a space to process what you're experiencing without judgment, whichever side of this you're approaching from.

What Counseling Can Support

For those in relationships with someone showing narcissistic traits, sessions often focus on rebuilding self-worth, setting boundaries, and processing the emotional impact of the relationship. For individuals exploring their own patterns, sessions focus on building self-awareness, empathy, and healthier ways of relating to others.

How Our Therapists Help

Our providers use evidence-informed approaches tailored to your specific situation, whether that's boundary-setting and healing for those affected by narcissistic relationships, or structured self-awareness work for those exploring their own patterns. For clients who want it, we also offer faith-integrated counseling.

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Find counseling in Colorado Springs, Aurora, Fort Collins, or Pueblo, or connect through secure teletherapy anywhere in Colorado. We accept Medicaid and most major insurance plans, including Aetna, Cigna, UHC, Kaiser, Anthem BCBS, and Tricare.

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What are the common traits of a narcissistic woman?

Narcissistic women often exhibit traits such as extreme confidence, dramatic emotional behavior, and a grandiose sense of self-importance. They are overly concerned with their physical appearance and social status and may have a fragile ego that requires constant validation (narcissistic supply). They can also be very self-centered and lack empathy for others.

How does narcissism differ in men and women?

While both male and female narcissists exhibit similar traits like a sense of entitlement, lack of empathy and need for admiration, there can be differences. Female narcissists, for instance, might use their relationships with other women to bolster their self-esteem or manipulate for personal gain. Male narcissists, on the other hand, may be more prone to showcase their narcissism through their professional achievements or financial success.

How prevalent is narcissism in women?

Can a narcissistic woman be a nurturing mother?

Narcissistic mothers may struggle with parenthood as their self-centered nature can interfere with their ability to put their children's needs first. Often, they view their children as extensions of themselves and can be overly concerned with their children's achievements as a reflection of their own worth.

Is it possible to have a healthy relationship with a narcissistic woman?

Having a relationship with a narcissistic woman can be challenging due to their self-centered behaviors and lack of empathy. However, understanding the nature of the disorder and setting boundaries can help manage the relationship. It's also recommended to seek professional mental health support if needed.

What is the impact of narcissistic abuse?

Narcissistic abuse can have a significant impact on a person's mental health, often leading to issues such as low self-esteem, anxiety, and depression. Victims may feel constantly belittled, manipulated, and unvalued.

Can narcissism be treated?

Yes, narcissism can be treated, often with psychotherapy. The goal is to help individuals with NPD understand their behaviors, develop healthier relationships, and improve their self-esteem.

How can I communicate effectively with a narcissistic woman?

Communicating with a narcissistic woman can be challenging due to their inflated sense of self-importance and tendency to feel superior. It's important to maintain your personal space and set clear boundaries. Avoid getting drawn into their manipulative tactics or abusive behavior, such as the silent treatment or belittling comments that make you feel inferior. Instead, focus on expressing your thoughts and feelings clearly and assertively.

What should I do if a female narcissist is part of my social circle or family?

If you have a female narcissist in your social circles or family, it's crucial to protect your mental health. Recognize the common traits of narcissism, such as an inflated sense of self, self-centeredness, and lack of empathy. In many cases, women with narcissistic traits exert control through manipulation tactics. Seek professional help if you find it difficult to manage the situation. Therapists can provide strategies to deal with narcissistic behavior effectively.

Can I maintain a healthy romantic relationship with a narcissistic woman?

Narcissists often engage in manipulative behaviors to maintain control and may show little consideration for their partner's feelings. If you're in a romantic relationship with a narcissistic woman, consider seeking professional advice. A mental health professional can provide guidance on how to navigate such a relationship and help determine whether it's possible to establish a healthier dynamic.

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Across hundreds of client reviews, one theme comes through again and again: people feel truly heard here. Clients describe finally finding a therapist who understood them, gaining real tools for anxiety, trauma, and anger management, and walking away from sessions feeling lighter and more hopeful. Many say Overcomers was the first place therapy actually felt like the right fit — a space to be met with warmth, patience, and genuine care on the path to becoming who they're meant to be.
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Shannon Matlock, LPC, NCC
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Shannon is wonderful. She's kind and she guides you to the answer through feedback and questions. She listens to my perception of my experience but also offers input that allows you to see the possibility of a different perspective.
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Barb is incredibly kind and patient. She kept the sessions productive and honest. She made me feel heard and helped with problem-solving. Having her as my therapist for the past several years was vital for my personal growth. I highly recommend her services and would happily return as a client if my schedule ever opens back up.
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Hilary was lovely. She was kind, patient, incredibly knowledgeable and very validating. She had extensive knowledge of my conditions that most providers dismiss and it was very comforting and encouraging to hear she knew of those conditions and was well informed of them. Best psychiatrist I've had yet. 10/10
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Kristen has been great and just what I need @ the moment. Look forward to more work together. Thanks for everything!!!
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I was very comfortable speaking with Savannah. She is very professional, compassionate and gave insight to things that are affecting my situation that I could not define. I look forward to learning more from her and how to overcome the obstacles I face. I am greatful to be working with her. 🙂
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I've decided to start seeing her twice a week because it is very helpful for me as she is a breath of fresh air