Though it's often portrayed as a bad thing, arguing can actually be a sign of a strong relationship.A healthy couple argues because they care about each...
Though it's often portrayed as a bad thing, arguing can actually be a sign of a strong relationship.
A healthy couple argues because they care about each other enough to want to resolve their differences.
They understand that an argument is not the end of the world and that it can help them grow closer together.
Of course, every couple is different and there's no magic number of arguments that indicates a healthy relationship.
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This is a personal decision that each couple will need to make for themselves. Some couples feel more comfortable sharing this information with their close friends and family, while others prefer to keep it to themselves. Ultimately, the decision is up to you.
No, you don't necessarily have to go to counseling together. In some cases, it may be more helpful for each spouse to meet with the counselor individually. This can be a good way to address specific issues that one spouse may be struggling with.
EFT helps couples identify and de-escalate negative emotions and interactions, replacing them with positive cycles of communication and support. This process fosters a deeper understanding and emotional responsiveness between partners.
Handling conflicts effectively involves:
It's common for people to have occasional worries or doubts in their relationship. However, if you find yourself constantly overthinking or obsessing about your relationship to the point where it's affecting your daily life and causing you significant distress, it may be helpful to seek support from a therapist or counselor.
During an EFT session, couples can expect to explore their emotional experiences, attachment needs, and interaction patterns. The therapist will guide them through exercises and conversations aimed at fostering secure emotional bonds and resolving conflicts.
