Yes, It's Normal for a Healthy Couple to Argue

Though it's often portrayed as a bad thing, arguing can actually be a sign of a strong relationship.A healthy couple argues because they care about each...

Marriage
June 26, 2025

Though it's often portrayed as a bad thing, arguing can actually be a sign of a strong relationship.

A healthy couple argues because they care about each other enough to want to resolve their differences.

They understand that an argument is not the end of the world and that it can help them grow closer together.

Of course, every couple is different and there's no magic number of arguments that indicates a healthy relationship. 

Author

Jennifer Luttman, LPC, ACS

I am a Licensed Professional Counselor, and owner of Overcomers Counseling. I'm dedicated to helping individuals find strength and healing through life’s challenges. With a deep understanding of mental health and years of professional experience, I specialize in fostering hope and resilience while equipping her clients with tools to thrive. Passionate about empowering others, she creates a safe, supportive space where everyone feels seen, valued, and capable of overcoming obstacles on their path to well-being.

Common Questions

Questions about Marriage

Are there any out-of-pocket costs for marriage counseling under Tricare?

Out-of-pocket costs can vary depending on the specific Tricare plan. For instance, Tricare Prime has no enrollment fees for active duty service members, but there are copayments for some services. It's recommended to check your specific plan or contact Tricare directly to understand any potential out-of-pocket costs.

Can couples counseling help if only one partner is willing to participate?

While it is ideal for both partners to actively engage in couples counseling, therapy can still be helpful if only one partner is willing to attend. In such cases, the participating partner can learn valuable skills and strategies to improve communication, manage conflicts, and create a more positive relationship dynamic, which may eventually encourage the other partner to join the process.

Who can benefit from EFT couples therapy?

EFT couples therapy is beneficial for couples experiencing relationship distress, marital issues, or emotional disconnection. It is suitable for partners looking to improve their emotional intelligence and create a more secure attachment.

What if my spouse is not a military member, can we still get marriage counseling through Tricare

Yes, as long as one member of the couple is eligible for Tricare, marriage counseling can be covered.

When Should I Talk to a Professional?

If you've tried everything and you're still not sure how to help your codependent husband, it may be time to seek professional help. This is a big decision, but it may be the best thing for your husband and your relationship. If you're not sure where to start, you can talk to your husband's doctor or mental health professional. They will be able to provide you with more information on codependency and how to help your husband.

How long does couples therapy usually last?

The length of therapy can vary depending on the couple's needs and the specific issues being addressed. Some couples might find a few sessions helpful, while others may continue for several months.

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