Understanding Depression

Depression can be absolutely debilitating, and with the highest recorded number of individuals suffering from depression quality...

Depression
March 21, 2025

Depression can be absolutely debilitating, and with the highest recorded number of individuals suffering from depression quality information is more important than ever.

Understanding depression will give you the tools you need to help bring yourself, or someone you love, to a more stable and positive life experience.

This article will break down ways of thinking about depression, provide an understanding of its impact neurochemically and emotionally, and offer specific strategies immediately employable to take your life back from depression.

Orientation Toward Time

One approach to understanding depression is through perception and orientation toward time.

This may seem a little science-fiction sounding, but the reality is that those who suffer from depression have a past-oriented state of mind.

This means that depression restricts the individual from conceiving only what has been and inhibits that person from seeing what could be.

This orientation toward time can make it feel like you're rowing a boat backward, on the shore; as if all your efforts are in vain and you can't make progress no matter what you do.

This mindset happens to everyone from time to time, but for those with depression alternative perspectives or new strategies seem pointless because the past-oriented framework says "nothing you've done in the past worked, and neither will this."

So, logically, re-orienting to a present or future orientation seems simple enough, but below we'll see how difficult our neurochemistry can truly make it.

woman sitting in a chair looking out the window

Neurochemistry of Depression

If we look at the neurochemistry of depression suddenly it makes a lot more sense how, and therefore why, it forces the individual to think only of the past.

When looking at the neurochemistry of depression there are two primary culprits- Dopamine and Serotonin.

Dopamine and serotonin are the brain's "feel-good" neurochemicals.

Serotonin is responsible for the "here-and-now" positive emotions such as contentedness and satisfaction; Dopamine on the other hand is oriented towards achieving goals, excitement over possibilities, and exploration.

But what does this have to do with an orientation toward time? Well, a depressed mind lacks both serotonin and dopamine which results in the inability to feel good where you are, combined with the inability to experience excitement toward future possibilities.

So, where does that leave the individual? A perpetual state of ruminating over the past and feelings of hopelessness about the future.

Past mistakes or regrets that can't be changed, past pleasures that are now gone, past joys that can never be recreated... and on and on.

Because our neurochemicals aren't activating as they should, it restricts our ability to perceive alternative outcomes and haunts us with only the most recent failures.

What This Means Emotionally

At this point, we've covered how orientation around time is expressed through depression as well as what is occurring neurochemically.

But how do these factors add up to the emotional experience of depression?

When a person is stuck on a negative feedback loop of past mistakes, past experiences that can longer be had, etc. the result is grief, sadness, guilt, shame, despair, and powerlessness.

This is the power of dopamine and serotonin.

Dopamine provides us with the feeling of desire, enthusiasm, hope, excitement, and motivation.

Serotonin grants us the ability to appreciate what we have, compassion towards ourselves, contentedness, satisfaction, and bliss.

When we are depressed and dopamine and serotonin aren't activating as they should, what else is left to experience?

Ruminations over what can't be altered; a fixation on the past that doesn't allow for things like opportunity or excitement for what might be right around the corner.

It refuses the individual the opportunity to feel that they have self-worth, value, and the power to change their circumstances.

It doesn't allow for appreciation and gratitude for the miraculous occurrences readily available through the laughter of friends, conversations with family, or even enjoying a simple moment in time that you alone have the irrevocable privilege of experiencing for the brief and inimitable period that it exists.

Woman outside meditating

What to Do About It

There's good news for all of us.

Our brains are engineered to adapt to change.

This means we have the power to alter our perceptions and experiences through conscious effort.

The tricky part is mustering the effort needed; as anyone with depression can attest to, motivation to do anything is seemingly non-existent.

But therein lies the hope, just as our feelings influence our perception and willingness to act, so too can our perception and actions influence our feelings.

So, here are 10 strategies to combat depression:

  1. Goal Direction: Creating goals, no matter how small, stimulates dopamine to be released, and then the achievement of that goal produces more dopamine which becomes a catalyst to increase motivation and become future-oriented.
  2. Gratitude & Appreciation: Watch movies, listen to stories, read books about gratitude and appreciation, or think about a time you felt truly grateful; accessing the emotion of gratitude (real appreciation) increases serotonin and unlocks a flood of positive perspective allowing you the ability to once again enjoy the little things.
  3. Mindfulness Meditation: Focusing your full attention on a single occurrence (breathing, walking, dishes, showering) makes it impossible for your mind to revert to negative emotions and thoughts about the past; each moment of life offers an opportunity to experience, with all your senses, the fullness and brevity of every passing second.
  4. Go Outside: Going outside and exposing your senses to the natural world stimulates serotonin and allows your body a natural absorption of vitamin D which boosts your mood, reduces blood pressure, and improves your immune system.
  5. Proper Nutrition: Humans are chemical beings and when our bodies aren't receiving the nutrients it needs it takes as much of a toll on our minds as it does our bodies; 1000mg of EPAs from fish oil taken daily, for instance, has been clinically demonstrated to be as effective as some anti-depressant medications.
  6. Movement: Some sort of exercise (hiking, running, weight-lifting, ANYTHING), involves goal direction, mindfulness, potentially going outdoors, and nutrition. On top of all the benefits those individually entail, exercise and movement in and of themselves stimulate the release of dopamine and improve motivation and self-confidence.
  7. Play: This may be the most difficult strategy to implement, but potentially the most important. Depression can feel like an oppressive weight that drains you of all joy, making play the perfect remedy. Play allows you to reconnect with the inner light-heartedness you experienced as a young child and reconnects you to the people who care about you releasing both serotonin and dopamine.
  8. Religion & Philosophy: Depression is isolating and can make you feel completely alone, but your experience is one that is shared with some of the greatest minds of human history. Exploring the texts left behind by poets, philosophers, and religious thinkers can foster a sense of connection and community that will help replace the feelings of isolation and loneliness with understanding and identification.
  9. Community: One of the most positive things a person can do is spend quality time with people who matter most. This draws attention away from negative emotions, boosts serotonin, and develops gratitude.  
  10. Show Up: The last strategy is the most simple, show up. Every moment is different from the last, and nothing lasts forever- not thoughts, feelings, circumstances, or perceptions. Acknowledge that your feelings are real, identify them, name them, and allow them to pass away like a storm cloud over a mountain. Each day you continue to show up is a day closer to breaking through that cloud and regaining your sense of self and possibility.

Conclusion

Understanding depression is absolutely vital to recovering from depression.

Understanding depression's effect on the perception of time, and how it alters our neurochemistry and our emotions, will provide immense opportunity to engage with depression, as opposed to passively experiencing it.

We have far more control over our well-being and our lives than we realize, and now you have 10 strategies to help you take your life back.

Now you have the information and tools to fight back.

If you notice that none of these tools work for you, that you just can't bring yourself even to start one of them, seek help.

Talk to your doctor or a professional as soon as possible, don't wait.

If you are currently harming yourself or having thoughts of suicide call emergency services at 9-1-1 or go to your nearest emergency room.

Take your life back, you are not a passive onlooker to life, you are an active and capable participant with immense power, you just need to use it.

Author
Jennifer Luttman, LPC, ACS

I am a Licensed Professional Counselor, and owner of Overcomers Counseling. I'm dedicated to helping individuals find strength and healing through life’s challenges. With a deep understanding of mental health and years of professional experience, I specialize in fostering hope and resilience while equipping her clients with tools to thrive. Passionate about empowering others, she creates a safe, supportive space where everyone feels seen, valued, and capable of overcoming obstacles on their path to well-being.

Common Questions about Depression

I don't want to ruin the holidays for my family by being sad all the time. What can I do?

It's important to remember that you are allowed to grieve however you need to, and that doesn't mean you have to ruin the holidays for everyone else. If you need to take a break from holiday festivities, do so. Go for a walk, take a nap, watch a movie—whatever you need to do to take care of yourself. You can also try talking to your family about your grief ahead of time and asking for their understanding and support.

What can happen if I don't seek help for my depression?

Ignoring depression can exacerbate symptoms and make it more challenging to manage over time. This can result in a negative impact on your personal, professional, and social life, leading to feelings of isolation and even thoughts of self-harm or suicide.

Can I talk openly about my feelings to the therapist?

Yes! In fact, it's encouraged that you open up to your therapist so they can gain deeper insight into your individual situation and develop the most effective treatment plan possible that works best for you. Your therapist is there to serve as an unbiased source of support who will respect any thoughts or feelings shared within the session without judgment or criticism.

How long does depression counseling typically take?

The duration of depression counseling varies for each individual, depending on the severity of their depression and their progress in therapy. Our therapists will regularly assess your progress and adjust your treatment plan as needed.

What resources are available to help me cope with depression?

There are many helpful resources available, including support groups, online forums, books and websites dedicated to mental health and wellness. Connecting with other people struggling with the same issue can be especially beneficial. Additionally, talking to a trusted friend or family member can provide much-needed social support during difficult times.

Why is it important to address depression?

Addressing depression is crucial because it can significantly impact your quality of life, overall well-being, and ability to function in daily activities. Left untreated, depression can lead to more severe mental health issues, relationship problems, and physical health complications.