How to Help a Grieving Spouse

Grieving is hard. It's one of the most difficult experiences a person can go through.For spouses, it can be especially tough to know how to help their loved...

Marriage
June 26, 2025

Grieving is hard. It's one of the most difficult experiences a person can go through.

For spouses, it can be especially tough to know how to help their loved ones through their grieving process.

But with some understanding and patience, you can make a big difference in your spouse's healing journey.

This is important because your spouse may not be able to express what they need from you during this tough time.

Here are some tips to help you support your grieving spouse. 

Author

Jennifer Luttman, LPC, ACS

I am a Licensed Professional Counselor, and owner of Overcomers Counseling. I'm dedicated to helping individuals find strength and healing through life’s challenges. With a deep understanding of mental health and years of professional experience, I specialize in fostering hope and resilience while equipping her clients with tools to thrive. Passionate about empowering others, she creates a safe, supportive space where everyone feels seen, valued, and capable of overcoming obstacles on their path to well-being.

Common Questions

Questions about Marriage

What if one partner is reluctant to attend therapy?

It can be challenging when one partner is hesitant about therapy. It can help to have open discussions about the potential benefits of therapy and to reassure them that it's a supportive and non-judgmental environment.

How do you handle conflicts in an interdependent relationship?


Handling conflicts effectively involves:

  • Approaching disagreements with an open mind and willingness to understand the other's perspective.
  • Communicating feelings and concerns honestly but respectfully.
  • Seeking compromises that address the needs of both partners.
  • Maintaining respect and care for each other, even during disagreements.

How do you rebuild trust in a marriage after betrayal?

The first step is to take responsibility for your actions and apologize. Next, be honest with your thoughts and feelings. Show that you're willing to change and be a better partner. Finally, set some boundaries to help prevent future hurt. Remember to be patient as it takes time to rebuild trust.

How do you rebuild trust in a marriage after lying?

The first step is to take responsibility for your actions and apologize. Next, be honest with your thoughts and feelings. Show that you're willing to change and be a better partner. Finally, set some boundaries to help prevent future hurt. Remember to be patient as it takes time to rebuild trust.

Where can I find more information about Tricare coverage for marriage counseling?

For more detailed information, you can visit the official Tricare website or contact a Tricare representative. You can also seek our resources at the defense health agency.

Can couples therapy make things worse?

It's possible for therapy to bring up difficult feelings or conflicts. However, this is often part of the process of resolving issues and improving your relationship. It's important to communicate with your therapist if you're finding sessions too difficult.

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