Grief is unique to each person when affected by it. Whether it is the way that a person uses to process their grief or the time in which they use to process...
Grief is unique to each person when affected by it.
Whether it is the way that a person uses to process their grief or the time in which they use to process it.
Grief can manifest in various ways in a grieving person's life and these changes occur on a physical or psychological level.
There are ways in which grief can change a person. Grief can make us have an identity crisis where we start to question who we are.
It may cause us to become socially withdrawn from our loved ones and the outside world for various reasons.
Grief can also lead to decreased productivity in people going through it.
Read the rest of this article to find out more ways grief changes people.
Most of the time the loss of a loved one shakes the foundation of who we have built and come to see ourselves as.
Before the loss, we may have seen ourselves as the doting mother or the amazing lover, maybe the best grandfather or the loveliest sibling.
These were aspects of ourselves we identified as and were happy with.
Loss unfortunately shatters aspects of our identities.
It takes away our sense of self or removes some purpose we thought we had when our loved ones were still around.
With the loss, the doting mother, the amazing lover, and the best grandfather will be in pain as a person who helped them identify with some identity is gone.
This byproduct of grief has sent a lot of people into emotional whirlpools that they have to endure as they try to reconcile with the turbulent emotions they are dealing with.
Our struggles with grief will eventually change our sense of identity as we try to fill the sinking hole left by the loss experienced.
It may be a struggle, but we can draw strength from the awesome memories of loved ones that we shared with them while they were still around to help us when we find ourselves with an identity crisis during grief.
Grief is a relentless virus that will stop at nothing to take over every aspect of a person's life.
It spreads aggressively and leaves a person in a worse condition than they were prior.
Sometimes it leaves people in the worst condition they have ever found themselves in. A decrease in productivity is one of how grief changes people.
A person in grief is a person who is in a constant state of replaying the pain they have experienced from a loss.
Everything else in the life of a grieving person seems tiresome.
In a state of grief, a person's favorite food could taste like an old towel.
A favorite activity could have no value anymore to such a person.
Even relating with other loved ones could be a chore.
With grief comes anxiety and with that comes stress.
Both are effective agents that help in limiting the productivity of a person.
Grief changes people by draining them of their joy and replacing it with a sinking feeling of pain and confusion.
The consequences of a muddled-up mind sooner or later find their way to the physical body and the combo is not one known to be good for productivity levels.
Good healing from grief is necessary for a person to get back to good productivity levels.
The ways grief changes people are not all negative.
When grief comes it makes a person feel weak for having no control over what has happened.
It brings pain and confusion that can send a person down a dark nihilistic rabbit hole where they see nothing else but the grief that they are experiencing.
The tumultuous journey through grief will dull all senses and a person may never be the same again if they don't find a way to shake off the feeling.
For many, it is after dealing with grief that they come to realize how strong they can get.
The mental fortitude which comes when and after healing from grief is something of a silver lining from very dark clouds.
With such mental fortitude, a person can give a helping hand to people around them who are still struggling with grief in the present or who may be in the future.
While not easy, we must remind ourselves of what lost loved ones would have wanted for us and draw strength from the acceptance that they would have only wanted us to heal and not dwell on and be defeated by our grief.
Many accounts by people who have grieved will confirm this, with many similar tales about how grief changes people as they somehow find an inner strength they never knew they had.
An inner strength that all will say helped them at that moment and subsequently in life.
The development of anxiety or increased anxiety is one of the ways grief changes people.
The loss of a loved one especially in cases where such loss is unexpected can bring on feelings of anxiety over the progression someone's life is about to take.
This feeling is very common among children as they mostly have not dealt with the concepts of death and loss.
The change in everyday life caused by the eternal absence of a loved one will manifest in different forms.
There are also symptoms of anxiety which can be seen as constant fatigue, foggy cognitive functions, a sense of dread, etc.
Grief changes people for the worse with the aid of anxiety.
It is why practices that help are advised.
Therapy, support groups, and even talking to a loved one are possible solutions to explore.
Social withdrawal affects lives and changes the lives of people in grief.
During grief, a person is on a different wavelength from others.
Jokes are not funny, conversations are not interesting, and being around others when grieving can make someone seem like a downer.
In some cases, people in grief stay away from other people because they do not want the constant condolences which remind them over and over again of the loss they've experienced.
It could be that they can sense people are walking on eggshells around them even though they would like them to act normal.
It could also be one thinks going to places and doing things with people is a form of disrespect to their lost loved ones.
Whatever the rationale behind it, social withdrawal is not advised for people in grief.
Sometimes being around loved ones or doing other activities can be a form of healthy healing during grief.
Grief can change people in a lot of ways.
Grief can change people by giving them an identity crisis, introducing anxiety into their lives, reducing their productivity, and causing them to socially withdraw.
The ways grief changes people in both good and bad ways - although mostly bad.
One good change is that it can strengthen the mental fortitude of a person afterward.
We have little control over where and how misfortune may fall on the ones we hold most dear but before it does and if it does, it is important to never let grief consume us to a point that we become shadows of ourselves.
https://dying.lovetoknow.com/ideas-advice-coping-grief/ways-grief-can-change-your-personality
https://www.joincake.com/blog/how-grief-changes-you/
https://www.theunleashedheart.com/the-impact-of-grief-on-productivity-in-the-workplace/
https://greenlawnfuneralhome.com/blog/how-grief-changes-you/
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor, and owner of Overcomers Counseling. I'm dedicated to helping individuals find strength and healing through life’s challenges. With a deep understanding of mental health and years of professional experience, I specialize in fostering hope and resilience while equipping her clients with tools to thrive. Passionate about empowering others, she creates a safe, supportive space where everyone feels seen, valued, and capable of overcoming obstacles on their path to well-being.
Ignoring grief can exacerbate symptoms and make it more challenging to manage over time. This can result in a negative impact on your personal, professional, and social life, leading to feelings of isolation, chronic sadness, and even physical health complications.
Yes, we provide supportive counseling for family members who are struggling with the loss of a loved one. Our compassionate therapists can help you gain insight into your feelings and provide constructive strategies to cope with the pain of bereavement.
There are a few things you should avoid saying to someone who is grieving, as they can come across as insensitive or unhelpful. For example, don't tell them that it's "time to move on" or that they "should be over it by now." It's also best not to make any assumptions about how they're feeling or what they need – instead, ask them directly how you can help.
It can be difficult to know what to say to someone who is grieving, but sometimes simply being there for them and offering your support can be helpful. You might try saying something like, "I'm here for you if you need to talk" or "I'm sorry for your loss." You could also offer to help with practical tasks such as running errands or cooking meals.
There are a few things you can do to help ease your pain during the holiday season. First, try to avoid triggers that may cause you to feel sad or upset. Triggers can be anything from certain songs or smells, to seeing certain people or places. If you know there will be triggers at holiday gatherings, try to arrive late or leave early if possible. You can also try to create new traditions that don't involve the triggers.
Grief can seem worse in the morning as the reality of the loss is often one of the first thoughts upon waking. This can be particularly true if you shared many mornings with the person who has passed away during wonderful years spent together.
