Should I Get Counseling For PTSD After Narcissistic Abuse?

Narcissistic abuse, a form of emotional and psychological manipulation, is an insidious, silent epidemic..

Trauma / PTSD Therapy
March 21, 2025

Narcissistic abuse, a form of emotional and psychological manipulation, is an insidious, silent epidemic that often goes unnoticed by those outside the toxic relationship.Victims are left with deep emotional scars, leading to Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) in many cases.The prevalence of PTSD following such abuse underscores the destructive impact of narcissistic behavior on one's mental health.Addressing this trauma is not just important—it's essential. It's about shedding light on a subject shrouded in darkness, breaking the chains of psychological torment, and embarking on a journey toward healing and self-discovery.This journey, while challenging, holds the promise of a life free from the shadows of past abuse, a life where survivors can reclaim their strength and autonomy.

The Impact of Narcissistic Abuse

Narcissistic abuse can have profound emotional and psychological effects on its victims, often leading to a state of constant self-doubt, anxiety, and feelings of worthlessness.The victims may find themselves trapped in a cycle of trying to please the narcissist, only to be met with further manipulation and devaluation.This relentless pattern of belittlement and control can severely undermine the victim's self-esteem and leave them feeling emotionally drained, isolated, and confused.This turmoil can lead to symptoms of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), as the individual struggles to reconcile their experiences with their sense of self.If left untreated, the long-term consequences of narcissistic abuse can be devastating.Individuals may struggle with maintaining healthy relationships, suffer from chronic depression or anxiety, and may even develop suicidal tendencies.The constant state of stress and tension takes a toll not just on mental health, but physical health as well, increasing the risk of various ailments like heart disease and autoimmune disorders.Personal stories from survivors paint a harrowing picture of life after narcissistic abuse. One survivor recounts, "I felt like I was walking on eggshells all the time. It took years of therapy to realize that I wasn't the problem."These testimonials underscore the urgent need for intervention and professional help in overcoming the trauma of narcissistic abuse.


The Role of Counseling in Recovery

Counseling plays a pivotal role in the recovery process from narcissistic abuse and PTSD, offering victims therapeutic tools to navigate their trauma and regain control over their lives.Different types of therapy can be particularly effective, depending on the individual's unique experiences and needs.Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), for instance, helps individuals understand and change thought patterns that lead to harmful behaviors or emotions.On the other hand, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) focuses on helping the individual reprocess traumatic memories to reduce their long-term impact.The benefits of counseling for PTSD recovery are multifaceted.To start with, it provides a safe space where victims can express their feelings and fears without judgment.It can help individuals recognize and break free from unhealthy patterns, develop strategies to cope with triggers and rebuild their self-esteem.Moreover, counseling can empower victims to regain control over their lives by helping them understand they are not responsible for the abuse they endured.Through consistent counseling, victims can gradually transition from surviving to thriving, as they learn to set boundaries, prioritize self-care, and foster healthier relationships.The journey might be challenging, but with professional guidance, healing is within reach.


Overcoming the Stigma of Seeking Help

Despite the proven benefits of therapy, many individuals hesitate to seek help due to misconceptions and stigma associated with mental health treatment.Some people believe that needing therapy signifies weakness or instability, while others fear judgment from their peers.However, it's crucial to understand that seeking help is not a sign of weakness, but rather a testament to one's strength and resilience.Therapy is not exclusively for those in crisis either; it's a valuable tool for anyone striving to improve their mental health and overall.The importance of mental health and self-care cannot be overstated, especially for survivors of narcissistic abuse.Just like physical health, mental health requires attention, care, and sometimes professional assistance.By prioritizing self-care and mental well-being, individuals can start rebuilding their lives, fostering resilience and promoting healing.Encouraging openness about mental health struggles is also essential in overcoming stigma.Sharing experiences can help others realize they're not alone and inspire them to seek help.As society grows more understanding and supportive, we can hope to see more people embracing therapy as an essential part of their recovery journey.

How to Find the Right Counselor

  • Factors to Consider When Looking for a Counselor
  • Their area of specialization: Ensure they have experience in dealing with PTSD and narcissistic abuse.
  • Their approach to therapy: Learn about their treatment philosophy and methods (CBT, EMDR, etc.).
  • Their credentials and licensing: Make sure they are certified by a recognized professional body.
  • The comfort level you feel with them: It's essential to feel safe and comfortable discussing your experiences.
  • Resources for Finding a Therapist Specializing in PTSD and Narcissistic Abuse
  • Support groups: You can get recommendations from people who have had similar experiences.
  • Health insurance provider: They can provide a list of in-network therapists.
  • Reach out to our specialists at Overcomers Counseling.
  • Tips for Making the Most Out of Your Therapy Sessions
  • Be open and honest: Your therapist can only help if they fully understand your situation.
  • Practice active participation: Engage in the process by doing assigned homework or exercises.
  • Take your time: Healing is a journey, not a race. It's okay to move at your own pace.

Author
Jennifer Luttman, LPC, ACS

I am a Licensed Professional Counselor, and owner of Overcomers Counseling. I'm dedicated to helping individuals find strength and healing through life’s challenges. With a deep understanding of mental health and years of professional experience, I specialize in fostering hope and resilience while equipping her clients with tools to thrive. Passionate about empowering others, she creates a safe, supportive space where everyone feels seen, valued, and capable of overcoming obstacles on their path to well-being.

Common Questions about Trauma / PTSD Therapy

How do I know if my communication style is assertive or aggressive?

Assertive communication involves expressing your needs and boundaries respectfully and clearly, while still considering the feelings and perspectives of others.Aggressive communication, on the other hand, may involve blame, criticism, or disrespect towards others.If you're unsure about your communication style, discuss it with your therapist, who can provide guidance and support.

How can I support a loved one who is experiencing triggers?

Educate yourself about trauma and triggers, listen empathetically to your loved one's experiences, and offer non-judgmental support.

Encourage them to seek professional help if they have not already done so, and respect their boundaries and needs during triggering situations.

Take the Next Step with Overcomers Counseling

At Overcomers Counseling, our compassionate and experienced trauma-informed therapists are dedicated to helping you navigate and manage triggers both during and outside of therapy sessions.

We understand the challenges you may face and are committed to providing support, guidance, and tailored strategies for coping with triggers.

Schedule an appointment with one of our skilled therapists today, and let us help you on your path to healing.

Can I completely avoid triggers during my healing journey?

While it is natural to want to avoid triggers, complete avoidance is not always possible or productive.

Instead, focus on developing coping strategies and building resilience to help manage triggers when they arise.

What is trauma-informed care?

Trauma-informed care is an approach to therapy and counseling that recognizes the prevalence and impact of trauma on individuals, families, and communities. It emphasizes creating a safe and supportive environment for clients, understanding the effects of trauma on mental health, and tailoring treatment plans to meet the unique needs of clients who have experienced trauma.

Is it normal for new triggers to emerge during the healing process?

Yes, it is possible for new triggers to emerge as you delve deeper into your healing journey. Discuss any new triggers with your therapist, who can help you develop strategies for managing them effectively.

What if I have difficulty asserting my boundaries outside of therapy?

Assertive communication involves expressing your needs and boundaries respectfully and clearly, while still considering the feelings and perspectives of others.Aggressive communication, on the Work with your therapist to develop assertive communication skills and practice implementing these techniques in various contexts.Building confidence in your ability to assert boundaries within therapy can translate to increased assertiveness in other areas of your life as wellother hand, may involve blame, criticism, or disrespect towards others.If you're unsure about your communication style, discuss it with your therapist, who can provide guidance and support.