How to Overcome Postpartum Anxiety

Postpartum anxiety occurs after childbirth, it leads mothers to worry excessively over their newborns. This...

Anxiety
March 21, 2025

Postpartum anxiety occurs after childbirth, it leads mothers to worry excessively over their newborns.

This type of anxiety goes way beyond the acceptable style of worries mothers have about their children.

Women who go through postpartum anxiety worry constantly about little things like whether their babies are breathing properly or eating well and they panic over such matters most times.

These thoughts consume your entire being since you rarely have the opportunity to think about something else.

In some cases, mothers develop OCD after childbirth because of the intense need to constantly take care of their child.

If you're experiencing this type of anxiety, you'll constantly be in a state of unrest and dissatisfaction over how you care for your child.

It sometimes makes women overly protective of their children and in worst-case scenarios, they don't allow other people to get close to their children.

You may be asking, 'how do I know that I have postpartum anxiety?'

Signs of Postpartum Anxiety

The constant fear of the unknown about your baby's health

  • The constant fear of the unknown about your baby's health
  • Racing heart ( heart palpitations)
  • Constant and unexplainable fatigue
  • Body tremors
  • Unbalanced sleeping and eating patterns
  • Restlessness
  • Panic attacks
  • Exhaustion/extreme tiredness
  • Nausea
  • Constant Irritability

Apart from the physical signs of postpartum anxiety, you could also note that the person's emotions will become so disrupted that they;

  • They may become too cautious about places that they visit and things that they do with their babies.
  • Hold on to the baby and refuse others from holding the child.
  • They may become overly controlling and stuck up with anything that concerns their baby.

Woman and her young child walking on sand near water

Causes of Postpartum Anxiety

Having a kid is not a child's play. Looking after children has never been easy.

When you get pregnant, your hormones become a very active part of your life, and most times, they dictate how you act if you can't control them. Hormones like oxytocin causes a mother and her baby to bond.

When postpartum anxiety kicks in, the function of oxytocin may turn into something fatal.

This hormone's function meant for good can turn ugly and cause the mother to obsess over the baby if she has postpartum anxiety.

While hormones play a significant role in causing postpartum anxiety, other external factors cause it:

  • Taking care of multiple children: This applied to women who have other kids under their care apart from their newborns. Being a caregiver for both older children and your newborn is not an easy task. This imbalance can cause you to develop anxiety which is also known as postpartum anxiety.
  • Lack of sleep: Having a newborn baby changes your sleeping pattern and causes a lack of sleep because babies wake up at odd hours to be cooed or fed. This constant lack of sleep can cause you to develop postpartum anxiety and a terrible sleeping pattern. However, as the child grows older, some of their needs that affect their sleep lessen.
  • Hormones: This plays a vital role in causing postpartum anxiety among women because they change how the woman thinks. If you're not careful, these hormones can override your common sense and cause you to be irrationally anxious.
  • A non-supportive partner: Parenting is a 50/50 affair. When your partner doesn't assist you, there's a high chance of developing postpartum anxiety because of stress.
  • Newborns with health issues: If you give birth to your baby and they have health issues, you'll become naturally inclined to worry about them. Also, if you're not careful, worry will fester into postpartum anxiety.

Treatment for Postpartum Anxiety

Every woman has a unique way of thinking, which affects how they can personally handle postpartum anxiety.

With this in mind, it is of essence to note that each woman may have what works for her, it is advisable to visit a professional and see what works for you.

Highlighted below are a few means by which postpartum anxiety is treated.

  • Practicing Aromatherapy: This method works well for several disorders including postpartum anxiety. The calming essence of some scented oils will help to soothe you and reduce the effect of anxiety after childbirth. It is best to visit professionals who can recommend the perfect essential oils for you.
  • Join a Support Group: It is said that no man is an island, there is no exception to this, especially when you're battling postpartum anxiety. Joining a support group involving mothers will help you since you'll get tips on ways to handle motherhood and you'll get to voice your worries in a safe and nontoxic environment.
  • Anti-Anxiety Medications: Medication should be administered by a professional and it is best to avoid self-prescription.
  • Exercise: Keeping your body in shape can positively affect your mind and help you to manage your anxiety.

How is Postpartum Anxiety Different From Postpartum Depression?

Postpartum anxiety brings about irrational worry over the care of a newborn child.

It makes mothers excessively protective of their babies.

However, postpartum depression on the other hand causes women to become depressed.

In worst-case scenarios, they neglect their responsibility to their kids and themselves.

Postpartum depression has gained a lot of media attention, whereas postpartum anxiety is still in process of being identified.

Conclusion

It is easy to wave off postpartum anxiety as motherly care of newborns but it is just as dangerous as any other anxiety that is in existence.

If you notice any symptoms of postpartum anxiety after childbirth, you seek help because there's no shame in that.

Resources

https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/postpartum-anxiety-an-invisible-disorder-that-can-affect-new-mothers-202107302558

https://www.healthline.com/health/pregnancy/postpartum-anxiety#causes

https://www.parents.com/parenting/moms/healthy-mom/the-other-postpartum-problem-anxiety/

https://www.eurekalert.org/news-releases/809652

https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/22693-postpartum-anxiety

Author
Jennifer Luttman, LPC, ACS

I am a Licensed Professional Counselor, and owner of Overcomers Counseling. I'm dedicated to helping individuals find strength and healing through life’s challenges. With a deep understanding of mental health and years of professional experience, I specialize in fostering hope and resilience while equipping her clients with tools to thrive. Passionate about empowering others, she creates a safe, supportive space where everyone feels seen, valued, and capable of overcoming obstacles on their path to well-being.

Common Questions about Anxiety

What can I do to reduce my anxiety?

To reduce your anxiety, you can practice relaxation techniques such as deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, guided imagery, and mindfulness practices. Additionally, regular exercise has been found to be beneficial in managing stress and improving mental health.

How do I know if my therapist is a good fit for me?

It's important that you feel comfortable discussing personal matters with your therapist in order to open up and get more out of therapy sessions; therefore finding someone who meets certain criteria like experience level, expertise areas, and personality is key when selecting a therapist who can give meaningful feedback about how best handle issues related to anxiety or other mental health concerns.

How long does anxiety counseling typically take?

The duration of anxiety counseling varies for each individual, depending on the severity of their anxiety and their progress in therapy. Our therapists will regularly assess your progress and adjust your treatment plan as needed.

Will medication help with my anxiety?

Medication is often prescribed for anxiety due to the fact that it works quickly to ease symptoms of distress or panic attacks in some cases. However, this should always be discussed with your doctor so they can provide guidance on what's right for you and the type of medication best suited for your needs.

What can happen if I don't seek help for my anxiety?

Ignoring anxiety can exacerbate symptoms and make it more challenging to manage over time. This can result in a negative impact on your personal, professional, and social life, leading to feelings of isolation and even depression.

Why is it important to address anxiety?

Addressing anxiety is crucial because it can significantly impact your quality of life and overall well-being. Left untreated, anxiety can lead to more severe mental health issues, relationship problems, and difficulty functioning in daily life.