How to Get Over Anxiety About Driving

Driving anxiety is a common concern that affects many individuals. It can manifest through various symptoms...

Anxiety
March 21, 2025

Introduction

Driving anxiety is a common concern that affects many individuals. It can manifest through various symptoms such as sweating, rapid heartbeat, dizziness, and even panic attacks while behind the wheel.

This type of anxiety can severely impact one's ability to drive comfortably and confidently.

Research indicates that a significant portion of the population experiences some form of driving anxiety, with estimates suggesting that around 10% of drivers face moderate to severe levels of fear related to driving.

Recognizing the roots of this anxiety and how frequently it occurs can serve as the foundational step in overcoming it.

Identifying the Root Causes of Driving Anxiety

Past Accidents or Near-Misses

Experiencing a car accident, even a minor one, can significantly impact a person's confidence behind the wheel.

The memory of the incident often resurfaces when driving, creating a heightened state of alertness and fear.

Even near-misses, where an accident was narrowly avoided, can be equally traumatic.

Fear of Getting Lost

A common source of driving anxiety is the worry about getting lost.

This fear can stem from a lack of familiarity with the area or a general sense of direction.

The uncertainty of not knowing where you are or how to get back to a familiar route can create a constant state of stress.  

Heavy Traffic and Highway Driving

Driving in heavy traffic or on highways can be particularly daunting. The fast pace, the need for quick decision-making, and the close proximity to other vehicles can overwhelm some drivers.

The constant start-and-stop nature of traffic jams, combined with aggressive drivers, adds to the stress.

On highways, the high speeds and the requirement to merge seamlessly with fast-moving traffic can be intimidating.

Recognizing these triggers can help people start to address and overcome their driving anxiety.

Practical Steps to Reduce Driving Anxiety

Gradual Exposure

Gradual exposure is a method that involves slowly increasing your comfort level with driving by taking small, manageable steps.

Start by simply sitting in your parked car. Spend some time getting comfortable with the controls and the environment without the pressure of actually driving. This can help reduce initial anxiety.

Progress to short, familiar routes once you feel more at ease in the stationary car. These routes should be ones you know well and feel confident navigating.

For example, start practicing in empty parking lots by driving around and working on turns, stops, and starts.

As confidence grows, move to quieter local streets and then to busier roads.

Eventually, you'll feel ready for highway driving. Breaking the process into smaller steps can help manage anxiety effectively.

Taking a Defensive Driving Course

Enrolling in a defensive driving course can significantly help reduce driving anxiety by providing formal training and practical skills.

These courses teach safe driving techniques, how to handle various traffic situations, and what to do in emergencies. Gaining this knowledge can boost your confidence and make you feel more in control.

Driving With a Trusted Companion

Having a supportive passenger can make a big difference when trying to overcome driving anxiety.

A trusted companion can offer reassurance, help you stay calm, and provide constructive feedback.

They can also assist with navigation and decision-making, which can alleviate some of the stress associated with driving alone.

Psychological Strategies to Combat Driving Anxiety

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) helps people address and change negative thought patterns and behaviors that contribute to anxiety.

It works by teaching individuals to recognize unhelpful thoughts and replace them with more positive ones, and it often uses techniques such as thought challenging, where you question and counter negative beliefs, and exposure therapy, which gradually introduces the feared situation in a controlled way to reduce anxiety over time.

Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques

Mindfulness and relaxation techniques can be effective in reducing driving anxiety.

Deep breathing exercises help calm the mind and body by slowing down the heart rate and reducing stress levels.

For example, taking slow, deep breaths in through the nose and out through the mouth can help bring immediate relief when feeling anxious before or during driving.

Guided meditation involves listening to a recorded session that helps you focus on relaxing thoughts and sensations.

This practice encourages mindfulness, which can help reduce overall anxiety over time.

Many apps, such as Headspace or Calm, offer guided meditations specifically designed to help manage stress and anxiety, making them a convenient tool for anyone looking to ease their driving fears.

Support Systems and External Resources

Seeking Professional Help

  • When to consider therapy or counseling - If driving anxiety significantly impacts daily life, it might be time to seek professional help. Persistent fear, avoidance of driving altogether, or severe physical symptoms are indicators.

Support Groups and Online Communities

Benefits of sharing experiences - Being part of a support group or online community can provide valuable insights and encouragement.

Sharing experiences with others who face similar challenges helps reduce feelings of isolation and provides practical tips for managing anxiety.

There are many forums and social media platforms that have groups dedicated to driving anxiety.

Long-term Management and Self-care

Regular Practice

Consistent driving is important for reducing anxiety over the long term.

Setting realistic goals, such as driving a certain distance each week or practicing specific skills, helps build confidence gradually.

Regular practice reinforces your comfort with driving and makes it a more routine activity.

Maintaining Overall Mental Health

Taking care of your overall mental health is essential for managing driving anxiety.

A balanced diet, regular exercise, and sufficient sleep contribute to lower stress levels and improved emotional health.

Incorporating a daily routine that includes healthy meals, physical activity, and adequate rest can help reduce overall stress, making it easier to handle driving-related anxiety.

Conclusion

Reducing driving anxiety involves a combination of gradual exposure, gaining knowledge and preparation, and long-term management through regular practice and self-care.

Familiarizing yourself with your vehicle, planning routes in advance, and being prepared for emergencies can significantly boost confidence.

Consistent driving practice and maintaining overall mental health are also vital components.

The journey to overcoming driving anxiety is unique for everyone, but these strategies can help pave the way to becoming a more confident driver.

Author
Jennifer Luttman, LPC, ACS

I am a Licensed Professional Counselor, and owner of Overcomers Counseling. I'm dedicated to helping individuals find strength and healing through life’s challenges. With a deep understanding of mental health and years of professional experience, I specialize in fostering hope and resilience while equipping her clients with tools to thrive. Passionate about empowering others, she creates a safe, supportive space where everyone feels seen, valued, and capable of overcoming obstacles on their path to well-being.

Common Questions about Anxiety

Why is it important to address anxiety?

Addressing anxiety is crucial because it can significantly impact your quality of life and overall well-being. Left untreated, anxiety can lead to more severe mental health issues, relationship problems, and difficulty functioning in daily life.

How long does anxiety counseling typically take?

The duration of anxiety counseling varies for each individual, depending on the severity of their anxiety and their progress in therapy. Our therapists will regularly assess your progress and adjust your treatment plan as needed.

How do I know if my therapist is a good fit for me?

It's important that you feel comfortable discussing personal matters with your therapist in order to open up and get more out of therapy sessions; therefore finding someone who meets certain criteria like experience level, expertise areas, and personality is key when selecting a therapist who can give meaningful feedback about how best handle issues related to anxiety or other mental health concerns.

Will medication help with my anxiety?

Medication is often prescribed for anxiety due to the fact that it works quickly to ease symptoms of distress or panic attacks in some cases. However, this should always be discussed with your doctor so they can provide guidance on what's right for you and the type of medication best suited for your needs.

Are there specific therapy services for anxiety and depression covered by Medicaid?

Yes, Medicaid provides insurance coverage for therapy services specifically designed to help individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, and other mental health conditions. Access to licensed therapists who specialize in these areas is available within the Medicaid network.

What can happen if I don't seek help for my anxiety?

Ignoring anxiety can exacerbate symptoms and make it more challenging to manage over time. This can result in a negative impact on your personal, professional, and social life, leading to feelings of isolation and even depression.